okay, you may not like what I have to say here,,,but whatever
I was asked by ttfn more or less the same thing a day or so back.
I was chased .'harangued' followed whatever you care to call it, from AB, by TriggerHippy, ummmm , redhelen and eventually craft and ttfn herself,
now? what would you have preferred me to do?
stay and put up with it? (probably)
or go where people like Doc knew what I was going through
I chose the latter and have no regrets